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A Poetic View on Relationships

11/12/2018

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Relationships are much like sunlight flirting with shadows or like the scurry of bird’s feet speaking with the earth -- just before flight.

​Relationships evoke emotions that ride with waves that kiss the tempest inside of us; with learned trust, we are rarely not too far from a lighthouse that will bring us closer to the sea caves of our awareness. This is a place of fierce love. That bold, shy, qu
iet, raging holiness where we see for the first time, again and again, that our mistakes are our gifts.
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Our heated complexities double-bind us until we stop running from our shadows and embrace them as one of us. Instead of exquisitely trying to deny and displace them. Such are the projections we narrate that ‘they’ could not be ‘us’ and yet ‘they’ are ‘us’ in the most extraordinary way. This isn’t easy. ​
​However, when we begin to see clearer, we can step into our shadows and befriend our personal eclipses.

​Our conflicts, distrusts, poignantly distressed relationships, as well as golden ones are almost certainly there to teach our soul the colors are within. And maybe, as we continue to walk along this bridge, we will understand that this love is real as it is whole and holy us.
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